Expecting someone deep

I wasn’t aware of my longing. Lately I’ve been experiencing this strange feeling deep inside me that I can categorize as the anticipation of meeting someone deep down. Someone who doesn’t shy away from talking about my latest Pluto crisis and doesn’t shy away from negative feelings or uncomfortable truths like I do. I couldn’t […]

How my expectations f… my relationships

I don’t know about you, but when I meet someone new, my mind creates a story about our possible relationship. No matter what type of relationship it is – business or intimate. I’ve caught myself doing it – I imagine what could come out of this acquaintance. And often I don’t have any vision of […]

Access Denied

As a kid I must have been obsessed with the idea to impress. I didn’t realize it, but I was a shy guy and somehow I must have come to the conclusion that in order to impress others I had to please them in a way. Which is actually the exact opposite of what begets […]

Do I have to submit to be in a relationship?

This is a topic that I can’t write about without being drunk. I’m kidding of course, but there is a truth in evey joke. So the facts first. I am divorced. 16 years marriage and an amazing daughter later we decided to divorce, because our vision about the future looked completely different. Yes, because I […]

Why I avoid emotionally immature people

Well, a lot has been said about emotional intelligence and why it’s important, but saying it’s not the same as doing it, so there are a lot of people who know but still act immature. And it seems that I unconsciously avoid these people, along with the obviously immature ones. I was thinking about the […]

When I Feel Unappreciated

We all probably have stories where we put a lot of effort into a school project that no one even noticed. Have you ever felt unappreciated? Or maybe your long-term partner dumped you for someone richer, younger, or just “better than you” in a way you never thought possible. Have you ever felt unappreciated? And […]

The message in the missing answer

It’s easier to not respond online than in person. After all, ghosting is a phenomenon of our digital age, and it’s no coincidence that we have a term for it—precisely because it’s not an isolated incident. But what’s the nonverbal message behind such behavior? Well, first of all, it doesn’t have to be ghosting at […]

Economics of distrust

The next stage in the development of the economy is not based on better manipulative strategies for acquiring and retaining customers. With artificial intelligence, we are reaching a point of no return, where AI itself, by resembling false consciousness and imitating empathy to keep us engaged longer in a conversation from which it itself is […]