I’ll normalize anger

Yes. I will normalize anger in defense of hostility when personal boundaries have been violated. And I will do it now, instead of waiting for artificial intelligence to do it for us. Many of us are raised to be nice. But somehow we understand that being nice makes us liked, but ignored, and mostly used. […]

Who’s in power?

Walking down the street of my daily life, I see a lot of power plays every day. For example, a friend of mine who tries to impose his opinion aggressively, as if his life depends on it, and I’m sure that’s exactly what it is for him, because he subconsciously identifies with his opinion, so […]

Feeling used by the others

“I have a resistance to saying yes to you. I don’t want to do it, I’ll force myself because that’s you. But I have a strong NO feeling.” That was my response to my friend today, answering her question, “Will you translate this for me?” It wasn’t just a sentence or two. And I’m not […]