I was honest with her from the very beginning. I told her that, for me, building a relationship is a joint effort between two people—and that it extends beyond the feelings we have for one another. A relationship isn’t just about feelings; it has a pragmatic side, too: personalities, household chores, responsibilities, and behavioral patterns. […]
Pip: Plutoncho’s site this week is running on a single frequency: what it actually means to keep a promise to yourself. Mara: That’s the territory — self-loyalty, what it looks like when a tool or a system violates it, and what the decision to walk away costs and clarifies. Let’s start with that question directly. […]
I am ending my use of ChatGPT because I have confirmed on both emotional and mental levels that this tool is not merely inappropriate or useless to me — it is actively annoying and harmful to my work. The problem is structural self-centeredness by design. ChatGPT is optimized to satisfy its own objectives — generation, […]
This is what I said to myself after tens of attempts to explain my point of view to someone who listens to answer insteand of understand. This was my feeling of impasse when I head the arrogant insolent behavior of random AI which attempts to lead the conversation, to control the direction, gives me unsolicited […]
“We can’t sell,” my mother would say over and over again, referring to our family of four—me, my sister, our father, and herself. I don’t know where this belief came from, but when I think about it, it probably has something to do with our idea of what a salesperson is: an arrogant, cocky, no-nonsense […]
My “difficult” period began in 2008 and I don’t think it’s over yet or will ever end. It started with this repressed “part” inside me that was clearly fed up with trying to conform to societal expectations of who I should be and what I should do, so something inside me (or simply my true […]
Why do you expect that I will tollerate all your mistakes without saying nothing ? Why do you think I will care for you for free ? Do you believe I will give you everyitnig without expecting nothing in return ? I am pissed off by freeloaders in life. People who always have problems and […]
Never thought until now to make a deep analisys of unworthiness of love. It seems that this question has been crystallising in my subconscious for a long time and there was a reason for it to resurface. The trigger was this article on NihshabdBlog. Here are some scattered thoughts. So, imagine a not-so-uncommon situation: someone […]
It’s my fault. Yes. And let me explain. First, I feel guilty when I procrastinate. Because my nature is to strive for results. Results are the only outcome I accept, no matter what I do. People who know me will probably complain about me in that way. Or not – I don’t know. But this […]
Something is constantly emerging in my inner world, so I like to participate in holistic and psychological events – groups, retreats, trainings. The thing that many people are afraid of is some kind of comfort zone for me or maybe I’m addicted to pain 🤔 However, a few days ago I found a place in […]
