I am not your father

Daily writing prompt
What’s a lesson you’ve learned recently that shifted your perspective?

Why do you expect that I will tollerate all your mistakes without saying nothing ? Why do you think I will care for you for free ? Do you believe I will give you everyitnig without expecting nothing in return ?

I am pissed off by freeloaders in life. People who always have problems and expect me to understand them. Not just to understand, but to “save” them from their troubles. And I should make this absolutely for free. Yes, but no I say. Why should I do this ? If you struggle, why should it be my problem ? Isn’t it your destiny, your karma or just the consequence of your bad decisions or deeds ? Why should I take responsibility instead of you then ? Did you learn your lesson in life if I save you ?

It happens with the women appearing in my life. They have all one repeating pattern: bad relationship with their father. So there is no surprise for me that they actually project on me their ideal father. But I am not that – sorry. I had to be your possible partner, but as I see you are not mine. So I will not stay. I am not here to save you, because you feel victim and do not take responsibility to heal your trauma. It’s not my problem !

Or maybe you want to do business, but have no idea about how to acquire customers. And want me to make this for you on commision base – you pay me when I sell something. No matter that I have to build all strategic part for you, invest my efforts and resources to investigate the market and to build suitable customer acguisition flow for you for free, because you are… so beautiful ? Or because you created something that nobody wants, but already feel like a business owner ?

For very long time in my life I tolerated ignorance, but those people are really insolent. They expect me or someone else to make them favor just because they don’t know. But ladies and gentlemen, the knowledge is available – you can just learn. It is not my obligation to save you from your ignorance.

Cheers for the people who know their value and do not pretend to be more than they are. And if you are not one of them, then f…k you !


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