Pip: Plutoncho’s site this week is running on a single frequency: what it actually means to keep a promise to yourself. Mara: That’s the territory — self-loyalty, what it looks like when a tool or a system violates it, and what the decision to walk away costs and clarifies. Let’s start with that question directly. […]
Why do you expect that I will tollerate all your mistakes without saying nothing ? Why do you think I will care for you for free ? Do you believe I will give you everyitnig without expecting nothing in return ? I am pissed off by freeloaders in life. People who always have problems and […]
Money, of course. But the same principles work for other things. Because everything costs something else. And no, this is not a quote from Winnie the Pooh, even though it sounds like it, and I found it writen in a source, which I don’t think is true. So… As a child, I was raised to […]
When someone says to me, “Pay me whatever you want,” I can feel the intense cognitive dissonance in the air. The person is clearly asking for money for what they’ve provided, but they’re afraid to say it directly, so stating a price becomes torture for them. And for me, too. Because somehow I feel like […]
We’ve all had similar experiences: there’s an unfair situation. You’ve just found your doll with its head off. You burst into a spontaneous roar and immediately your mother anxiously rushes to see what happened. You try to explain that it must be your brother’s doing, through the tears. But he left the house earlier, instead […]
It was almost trivial. My father did something that made me look bad in front of other people. Later I asked him in private why he did it? And he was shocked. He tried to accuse me of something that wasn’t true. Long story short: He finally said, “Then I’ll disinherit you.” He didn’t speak […]
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