Between people’s unconscious motives and their words. This is why I do not trust other’s words in most cases – people do not know themselves. This is a very good ability. I can help someone clarify his own intention. This can lead to deep understanding. And this is a curse in my personal relationships. It […]
I was 21 years old, just after being discharged from military service (it was mandatory in my country). As a passionate computer geek since my school days, I was looking for a job related to computers. My “boss” made me an offer. I started, expecting to be trained to do the job. I also hoped […]
I don’t trust others enough anymore. In the past, when someone treated me disrespectfully, I had the strength to understand. I tried to convince myself that their intentions weren’t bad. Maybe the person was having a bad day or something stressful happened in their life. I believed that they weren’t inherently rude. I just changed […]
That’s the word that describes me today. It’s a deep inner struggle for meaning. An existential crisis in nature. A noogenic neurosis, as Viktor Frankl would say. No one can help me with this. I have to find meaning for my own soul deep within myself. I know this state. It’s not the first time […]
… is me. Yes, yes, me, myself and I. Why do I think so? ? If I can say I know somebody, it is really me. I am the only person I’ve been together with for so long. Whether I feel confident all the time is another matter. I’ve fallen so many times, and every […]
Trying to avoid negative feelings does not help me solve “the problem.” This happens if I perceive negative feelings as the core problem itself. I usually apply a typical framework in such situations. The first question will be “What is the problem?” The honest answer must be the name of this feeling. Nothing more or […]
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