There are so many people out there telling you how to make money these days. Courses, videos, podcasts, books… The problem with all these digital creators on the internet is that they’re trying to teach you practical skills on how to set up your sales funnel and start selling something their way. And you’re not […]
“Oh, but it’s nothing!” How many times have you heard this about yourself, or worse: how many times have you felt this way without being told it verbally? The impression that we are nothing, meaning that we have no perceived value to others, stems from this feeling. When someone – mostly unintentionally – shows us […]
When someone says to me, “Pay me whatever you want,” I can feel the intense cognitive dissonance in the air. The person is clearly asking for money for what they’ve provided, but they’re afraid to say it directly, so stating a price becomes torture for them. And for me, too. Because somehow I feel like […]
This is the billion dollar question, right? What do I sell ? The short answer for me is CLARITY. Yes, I sell clarity. It’s the experience of my customers – the people who pay me for my products and services. And yes, clarity is the experience, not the product itself. The real reason people buy […]
As Albert Einstein said, “Everything is energy.” But esotericists say that money itself is not energy. Money is just a vehicle that carries the energy of the giver. So what? If I feel fear when I give you money, the energy you receive from me is fear itself. Believe it or not. But that’s the […]
Well, it depends. On self-perception. And on the environment. I’ll explain. It’s about values. If we take self-worth as an example, it’s a total perception. First, it involves the word SELF. What is self? According to Wikipedia, the self is an individual’s own being, knowledge, and values, as well as the relationship between these attributes. […]
Yes. I will normalize anger in defense of hostility when personal boundaries have been violated. And I will do it now, instead of waiting for artificial intelligence to do it for us. Many of us are raised to be nice. But somehow we understand that being nice makes us liked, but ignored, and mostly used. […]
Walking down the street of my daily life, I see a lot of power plays every day. For example, a friend of mine who tries to impose his opinion aggressively, as if his life depends on it, and I’m sure that’s exactly what it is for him, because he subconsciously identifies with his opinion, so […]
Coercion is a form of control that involves using force or manipulation to make someone do something against their true will. Says Dr. Najmun Riyaz on her website. I can understand people who feel desperate and use coercion because they are afraid of losing something that is meaningful to them, such as a desire for power that […]
Most people don’t know or care who I am, but they try to tell me what to do. And the reason is their selfishness – they need something valuable to them, but they project the obligation to deliver it onto me. So they conveniently forget to ask me if I agree. This seems to happen […]
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