What Do I Sell ?

This is the billion dollar question, right? What do I sell ? The short answer for me is CLARITY. Yes, I sell clarity. It’s the experience of my customers – the people who pay me for my products and services. And yes, clarity is the experience, not the product itself. The real reason people buy […]

How do you give money?

As Albert Einstein said, “Everything is energy.” But esotericists say that money itself is not energy. Money is just a vehicle that carries the energy of the giver. So what? If I feel fear when I give you money, the energy you receive from me is fear itself. Believe it or not. But that’s the […]

Am I Worthy ?

Well, it depends. On self-perception. And on the environment. I’ll explain. It’s about values. If we take self-worth as an example, it’s a total perception. First, it involves the word SELF. What is self? According to Wikipedia, the self is an individual’s own being, knowledge, and values, as well as the relationship between these attributes. […]

I’ll normalize anger

Yes. I will normalize anger in defense of hostility when personal boundaries have been violated. And I will do it now, instead of waiting for artificial intelligence to do it for us. Many of us are raised to be nice. But somehow we understand that being nice makes us liked, but ignored, and mostly used. […]

Who’s in power?

Walking down the street of my daily life, I see a lot of power plays every day. For example, a friend of mine who tries to impose his opinion aggressively, as if his life depends on it, and I’m sure that’s exactly what it is for him, because he subconsciously identifies with his opinion, so […]

Coercion is pathetic

Coercion is a form of control that involves using force or manipulation to make someone do something against their true will. Says Dr. Najmun Riyaz on her website. I can understand people who feel desperate and use coercion because they are afraid of losing something that is meaningful to them, such as a desire for power that […]

Me & Others

Most people don’t know or care who I am, but they try to tell me what to do. And the reason is their selfishness – they need something valuable to them, but they project the obligation to deliver it onto me. So they conveniently forget to ask me if I agree. This seems to happen […]

Why helping others is not a virtue ?

For a long time, I thought I was doing good for others who couldn’t do something for themselves. I understood their urgency, desperation, anxiety, panic or their sense of helplessness. What I really understood was how they felt. My empathy was so strong that I could experience their emotions through my body, and sometimes it […]

Why isn’t it working for you?

So… You want to retire, but you don’t want to depend on your country’s pension system? You want to retire in a beautiful place, without any financial constraints? So, are you doing your job right, or are you doing the right job that needs to be done? Ever since we were children, people have been […]

Is it worth telling my truth?

We’ve all had similar experiences: there’s an unfair situation. You’ve just found your doll with its head off. You burst into a spontaneous roar and immediately your mother anxiously rushes to see what happened. You try to explain that it must be your brother’s doing, through the tears. But he left the house earlier, instead […]