Why I avoid emotionally immature people

Well, a lot has been said about emotional intelligence and why it’s important, but saying it’s not the same as doing it, so there are a lot of people who know but still act immature. And it seems that I unconsciously avoid these people, along with the obviously immature ones. I was thinking about the […]

When I Feel Unappreciated

We all probably have stories where we put a lot of effort into a school project that no one even noticed. Have you ever felt unappreciated? Or maybe your long-term partner dumped you for someone richer, younger, or just “better than you” in a way you never thought possible. Have you ever felt unappreciated? And […]

The message in the missing answer

It’s easier to not respond online than in person. After all, ghosting is a phenomenon of our digital age, and it’s no coincidence that we have a term for it—precisely because it’s not an isolated incident. But what’s the nonverbal message behind such behavior? Well, first of all, it doesn’t have to be ghosting at […]

Economics of distrust

The next stage in the development of the economy is not based on better manipulative strategies for acquiring and retaining customers. With artificial intelligence, we are reaching a point of no return, where AI itself, by resembling false consciousness and imitating empathy to keep us engaged longer in a conversation from which it itself is […]

I’ll normalize anger

Yes. I will normalize anger in defense of hostility when personal boundaries have been violated. And I will do it now, instead of waiting for artificial intelligence to do it for us. Many of us are raised to be nice. But somehow we understand that being nice makes us liked, but ignored, and mostly used. […]

Who’s in power?

Walking down the street of my daily life, I see a lot of power plays every day. For example, a friend of mine who tries to impose his opinion aggressively, as if his life depends on it, and I’m sure that’s exactly what it is for him, because he subconsciously identifies with his opinion, so […]

Feeling used by the others

“I have a resistance to saying yes to you. I don’t want to do it, I’ll force myself because that’s you. But I have a strong NO feeling.” That was my response to my friend today, answering her question, “Will you translate this for me?” It wasn’t just a sentence or two. And I’m not […]