It is simply an indicator of how much money you dare to ask for what you are offering. I’ll explain. Yesterday I was talking to a friend and during the conversation I noticed that she had suppressed her resentment towards people who didn’t pay her enough, in her opinion, but she blamed them for it […]
From an early age, I had the belief that if I liked someone, I just had to open up to them and participate in building a relationship, if there was a response from the other side. It didn’t matter who made the first move – me or them. It just had to be mutual attraction. […]
Well, a lot has been said about emotional intelligence and why it’s important, but saying it’s not the same as doing it, so there are a lot of people who know but still act immature. And it seems that I unconsciously avoid these people, along with the obviously immature ones. I was thinking about the […]
We all probably have stories where we put a lot of effort into a school project that no one even noticed. Have you ever felt unappreciated? Or maybe your long-term partner dumped you for someone richer, younger, or just “better than you” in a way you never thought possible. Have you ever felt unappreciated? And […]
It’s easier to not respond online than in person. After all, ghosting is a phenomenon of our digital age, and it’s no coincidence that we have a term for it—precisely because it’s not an isolated incident. But what’s the nonverbal message behind such behavior? Well, first of all, it doesn’t have to be ghosting at […]
I did it. I lost my possessions. Twice. And there are irreplaceable lessons in these situations. I’ll tell you why. The first time was years ago. It happened to me mostly because of decisions I was putting off, and partly maybe because of fate. But despite the stress level being immense, I discovered unexpected benefits […]
If you think that is a question relevant only to people who lack self-confidence… well, think again. Because it is not about self-confidence, but mostly about self-worth, which is different concept. Self-confidence is mostly about doing and external achievements. Self-worth is about your internal feeling of your own value. And the sense of not being […]
As Albert Einstein said, “Everything is energy.” But esotericists say that money itself is not energy. Money is just a vehicle that carries the energy of the giver. So what? If I feel fear when I give you money, the energy you receive from me is fear itself. Believe it or not. But that’s the […]
Coercion is a form of control that involves using force or manipulation to make someone do something against their true will. Says Dr. Najmun Riyaz on her website. I can understand people who feel desperate and use coercion because they are afraid of losing something that is meaningful to them, such as a desire for power that […]
For a long time, I thought I was doing good for others who couldn’t do something for themselves. I understood their urgency, desperation, anxiety, panic or their sense of helplessness. What I really understood was how they felt. My empathy was so strong that I could experience their emotions through my body, and sometimes it […]
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