Can I ask for more ?

Money, of course. But the same principles work for other things. Because everything costs something else. And no, this is not a quote from Winnie the Pooh, even though it sounds like it, and I found it writen in a source, which I don’t think is true. So… As a child, I was raised to […]

The fear of asking for money

When someone says to me, “Pay me whatever you want,” I can feel the intense cognitive dissonance in the air. The person is clearly asking for money for what they’ve provided, but they’re afraid to say it directly, so stating a price becomes torture for them. And for me, too. Because somehow I feel like […]

Is it worth telling my truth?

We’ve all had similar experiences: there’s an unfair situation. You’ve just found your doll with its head off. You burst into a spontaneous roar and immediately your mother anxiously rushes to see what happened. You try to explain that it must be your brother’s doing, through the tears. But he left the house earlier, instead […]

Because they don’t like what I’ve done ?

It was almost trivial. My father did something that made me look bad in front of other people. Later I asked him in private why he did it? And he was shocked. He tried to accuse me of something that wasn’t true. Long story short: He finally said, “Then I’ll disinherit you.” He didn’t speak […]